I'd say she's a girl after my own heart, but that would suggest she doesn't already have it. Her need to cling to the familiar, despite the profound loneliness that has been her reality for literally as long as she can remember, is stunningly relatable, not to mention heartbreaking. Those first few scenes where we get a glimpse into her daily grind, and the quirks of her interactions with others throughout The Force Awakens--the confused expression she gives Finn when he asks if she's okay, the way she balks at the idea of a someone holding her hand and leading her around, the gleeful nerdery with which she talks about spaceship tech--characterize her so thoroughly and endear her to me immensely. Can't say that about many other characters.